Archive

Posts Tagged ‘Transgender Issues’

 Crystal’s and FictionMania

February 9th, 2010 9 comments

Okay, so it looks like things have come to an ending with both Crystal’s StorySite and FictionMania. Both have stopped accepting new submissions, and in some cases have turned off critical functions such as forum posting.

I have to say in some ways I’m relieved. People can calm down now and allow things to settle some. But it is up in the air as to whether Crystal’s StorySite will continue as it is. FictionMania has made their position clear (in their own way.)

For those of you who aren’t current on the flamewar, basically it comes to one person’s stories.

FictionMania has long had a reputation for being the toilet of TG fiction. They will take anything and post it as long as there is a passing reference to Transgenderism or Crossdressing. The story that started this was a story about an 8 year old who was in a dress and having sex with full grown adult males. Apparently in the story, the 8 year old enjoyed it.

The author has somewhat (backhandedly) apologized for starting this problem. Other authors attempted to convince Crystal to remove the story from her site since they didn’t want the reputation of StorySite being ruined by the inclusion of this kind of story. Some of the rallying cries were “let trash like this be in the trailerpark of FictionMania”.

As you might expect, this caused an uproar on both sites. Three days later, we have an admin of StorySite who had a nervous breakdown and couldn’t handle the pressure, turn off the server containing new stories and most of the critical update functions for StorySite, another site which basically says “I don’t care what is up here”.

I just saw “official” word from Crystal saying that she was appalled and not sure if StorySite would continue. Not by the story that started it all, mind you, but by the debate and flamewar that occurred on her site’s forum. The ability to post there has been turned off.

You can still see the stories there if you removed any reference to “two or 2″ from the URLs, but everything is several years old there. Some authors have requested for their stories to be removed from these sites, so that they are not associated with child pornography (which the originating story definitely is).

So now we have a few alternatives. Go to a pay site like TGFiction, stay with sites like BigCloset and TopShelf and Stardust, create your own archive of stories and post them all there. And this is a very sad state of affairs indeed.

I’m sad things have come to this. I’m sad that problems have caused this fracture. My offer to host stories for authors who are leaving those sites still stands. This will remain a free site. I will even build a new site, complete with URL to host others stories if there is enough call for this.

I’m not really happy about all this, but there’s not a lot I can do. I’ve made my opinion plain as I can, and I stand by it.

Love Always...NOT my actual signature

 

 

 Politically Castrated?

October 3rd, 2009 No comments

(I have made comments screened on this post. Don’t be afraid to post your thoughts, only you and I will see them.)

If you haven’t figured this out by now, you REALLY need to get a clue; I’m transgendered. Therefore you would think that I would be interested in the LGBT issues that come up. Things like “can transitioned people get healthcare?” “Will marriages that were made before a sex change still be valid afterward?” “Can a non-gay author write a good book about being gay?” one would think I would be concerned about, but I’m just not.
Read more…

 TG/TS and BDSM

September 10th, 2009 3 comments

Let me start this post out by saying that I am only speaking for myself. I have no clue as to the feelings of others, nor have I talked to anyone about this.

That being said, I have noticed a lot of crossover between the BDSM community and the TS/TG/crossdressing communities. When I had gone to events in the past that had floggers and cuffs, I noticed several people who were also either crossdressers or who were actual transsexuals and transitioning.
Read more…

 Fears

August 30th, 2009 2 comments

One thing that keeps coming up for discussion in various TG/TS forums is fear of the police. There are multiple threads I’ve seen where the original poster is talking about the fear they have of being held by the police for some reason. Part of it is the humiliation of being outted as a TG/TS and the resulting ostracization that can occur from just that all the way to murder at the hands of the police.

Don’t think it’s possible? Take a look at this story and video: Woman Arrested/Striped/Left Naked By Police After Reporting A Crime

That woman is obviously a genetic girl, a real girl, and this happened to her as a victim of a crime. Then contrast that with this story:

Duanna Johnson in Memphis, TN
Memphis Police Officer Beats Transgender Suspect
Duanna Johnson Murdered
Transgender Beating Victim Found Dead in North Memphis

While I’m not going to say that the police murdered Duanna Johnson to stop the lawsuit against them, there is a pattern of violence against those who are considered “different” from the norm. That pattern has been displayed over and over again against not only those who are TS/TG, but those who are gay, those who prefer the company of another sex, and more.

I want to make some sort of grand statement here. I want to say that the entire reason that we fear is because there is truth in the fear, but I’m not that good a writer. I can’t be the voice of those who died like Duanna or Matthew Shepherd, I can’t express in text the nightmare that some feel when they go out dressed up. It is not just the frisson of fear that they will be seen and “outted” as a crossdresser, it is also the fear that there will be a violent, hate mongering, homophobic overreaction that will end with the one who is “different” being in the hospital, or worse, the morgue.

I would ask those who read this blog to pass along this story, to tell others of these experiences in their life. To try to get those who aren’t afraid to go out in clothing appropriate to their sex to understand and to be willing to prevent more of these tragedies.

All I can do is share my thoughts.

Love Always...NOT my actual signature

 

 

 How to Accept Your Crossdressing Fetish

July 6th, 2009 No comments

How to Accept Your Crossdressing Fetish | eHow.com.

A friend of mine and a somtimes visitor to this blog, Teressa Bowers, wrote this e-how article and shared it with Twitter.  I followed the link and got to this page.

I have to say that I think it’s brilliant.  I came to most of the same conclusions simply through time and effort, but she did a wonderful job of laying it out for anyone.

I highly encourage everyone who wonders about crossdressing and about how to do it themselves to go and check this article.  Heck, there’s a bunch of “related articles” to the right of this one, and I think they are just as good.

Love Always...NOT my actual signature

 

 

 The Waitress

June 26th, 2009 1 comment

The WaitressFor ten years, I had been going to the same cafe for lunch. I ordered the same thing, served the same way all the time. Occasionally I had changed my routine a little and gotten something else, or eaten there on the weekend, but most times it was the same old same thing every day.

Today the cafe burned to the ground.

I heard the sirens from work. It would be hard not to since they came right by our building about 10 AM. I was on a sales call at the time so I didn’t pay any attention to the sirens, figuring that if they concerned me I would find out quick enough.
Read more…